Any woman who doesn’t give a fuck is simply abandoning her soul to adhere to the rules. No woman on earth doesn’t give a fuck—no woman is that cool—she’s just hidden her fire. Likely, it’s burning her up.
This pretty much encompasses all my feelings about all the relationships in my life right now.
The feeling of “never good enough” arises again and again … and I drown in it.
“We know what the world wants from us. We know we must decide whether to stay small, quiet, and uncomplicated or allow ourselves to grow as big, loud, and complex as we were made to be. Every girl must decide whether to be true to herself or true to the world. Every girl must decide whether to settle for adoration or fight for love.”
Glennon Doyle Melton, Love Warrior: A Memoir
Absolute truth. Men get too hung in the money. Ill take your time and attention over anything materialistic anyday.
It also seems to be a gauge by which a woman can realize how much she means to a man. Perhaps even a way for a man to determine where a woman’s intentions and loyalties lie.
It really is the simple things.
1. Complimenting her on something she assumes you won’t notice, like her new shade of nail polish or lipstick. 2. Writing out a note inside of a card instead of just scribbling your name on the bottom. 3. Telling her that a song, a movie, or a commercial reminded you of her. 4. Bringing home leftovers especially for her after you…