The judge did not extend my protection order because there wasn’t another act of violence or threat of violence. She did however say that if “we” ended up before her again, that she would automatically grant a 5 year protection order with no exceptions regarding the kids.
My attorney told me in private later that he tried to play up EX’s instability and volatile nature. He told me that he would be surprised if I didn’t end up with another protection order within six months. He said he believes that EX is an easily angered petty fool, and that he will do something stupid. Just something else to look forward to.
More interesting news came out of today. El Chupa’s attorney revealed somethings. Apparently, there are problems in paradise. El Chupa is on the verge of losing his job. “She” is on the verge of losing her house. And although, we were informed that “they” are getting married “soon” El Chupa’s attorney advised that they are having a lot of problems.
I don’t know whether to laugh or cry about that.
I mean on one hand, I’m not surprised. I knew as much from the sporadic, sniffle filled apologies that I receive in voicemails and such. After having him cheat on me and destroy our family and put our kids through the hell, it’s a little vindicating to know he’s getting what he deserves. But on the other hand, how sad, that after all the pain and heartache he caused us, it’s all for nothing. How pathetic that his pride in appearances means more than seeing his own children.
And with that. …. I’m at a lost for words.