Do you ever wonder what things you should say and what things you shouldn’t? I can’t seem to win in that arena.
I also can’t seem to figure out what makes you a friend.
Is it totally ignoring the fact that someone is screaming inside, sticking to the surface b.s. and laughing it off? Because it always seems that when I care and try to help – I’m a brutal bitch. BUT if I refuse to pull up a chair and watch some one I care about self-destruct and simply stick to putting in as much as I’ve ever gotten in the “friendship”…….well then I’ve got a stick up my ass.
What is the answer?
Why do people miss EXs whom THEY SAY treated them like crap, but could go on with life without a second thought about the friend who was there for them to wipe snot on through it all???
And why do people sit and listen for hours on end to some asshole who screwed them over go on forever about their feelings and some big epiphany but me – oh!!! I’m just freakin’ looney tunes if I don’t instantaneously forget the fact that I had my feelings hurt and disregarded?
I guess you can’t make people care about themselves and if they don’t. Probably should just keep your yap shut cause anything you say will just rub them all the wrong way and all you’ll be left with is heap full of blameful bullshit.
What can you do?
My Nana is coming to visit Sept 30th – Oct 10th!!! So excited. Love my Nana.
Quite honestly I’m just really happy that she will be able to get away for 10 days and sleep in and have no worries….just chillin in her jammies, watching movies and stuff. This is a much needed break for her. Yay!