Family Matters

How many times do you take a shot at something before you give up?

Isn’t the definition of insanity when you do the same thing over and over again with the belief that there will be a different outcome when it has always produced the same results before?

Lord, knows it has made me insane before.

What do you do when you need to make a decision and your heart and your head are not in sync?


My cousin, Li, sent me an e-mail this morning. She asked if it would possible for us to sit down and talk things out privately when I make my visit to KY next month about what has happened. What happened was that she had a boyfriend whom she said was being abusive. I finally became so concerned that I reached out to someone else in the family and that person confronted her. Her response was to act as though I was a crazy person, jealous of her relationship and creating drama for my own entertainment.

Now, I am all for finding a resolution to the situation as a whole….I’m willing to sit down and listen and I’d be kidding myself if I didn’t admit that I would like to confront her face to face about some things,like…sleeping with my ex-fiance, yeh, that ACTUALLY happened. I have no desire to be mean, but you know….when things go down and accusations are made about me that are not factual, I want an explaination.

I guess I’ll put my own reservations aside and hope for the best.

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